So apparently iCloud was hacked and pretty much every female celebrity’s nudes were leaked. I’d like to remind my followers not to post them, because they’re supposed to be private, and just because some asshole leaked them doesn’t mean you should make it worse by spreading them around.
shout out to all the closeted/semi closeted trans/nonbinary/non-cis-IDing people starting school for the year
your identities are all valid no matter how many or few people you’ve come out to, you’ll do great (try your best that’s all we can ask), and I am so proud of all of you; you can do this ☆〜（ゝ。∂）
its kinda scary when you waste an entire day doing nothing and time just passes
accurate representation of a school trial in sdr2
ignore anyone who tells you otherwise.
No white girls?
Y’all white women got your beauty standards PLASTERED ALL OVER THE MEDIA. Open up a magazine, you guys are everywhere.
Fuck, let us WoC have atleast some type of representation.
STORY TIME KIDS. Lucas Grabeel who played Ryan Evans was 100% for making Ryan canonically gay, and spoke to Kenny Ortega at length to get Ryan to at least hold hands with a male student in the final scene. Grabeel is straight but thought it was so important for Disney viewers to see gay characters on TV, knowing that the HSM3 viewership was age 11+, when kids may start thinking about who they’re attracted to a bit more. basically Disney gave Lucas a flat out no and as a response wrote in Ryan’s relationship with Kelsi last minute (as speculation was already flying around about Kelsi being a lesbian). so even though disney screwed them over ortega told grabeel that he could do whatever he liked in the blooper reel and they’d include it in the DVD. hence above.
I reblog this every time its on my dashboard and I’m not even approaching embarrassed.
Anxiety & Helping Someone Cope.
I didn’t want to make it overwhelming or too long remember, so I kept it to the main points that benefit me greatly when I’m experiencing an attack.
40 million of Americans alone suffer with anxiety; it’s a horrid feeling when you know someone just wants to help you but you cannot even construct a simple sentence at the time, so please share this in hope that it benefits even just 1 person. Muchos love.
to add, some people don’t want to admit they’re having an attack while going through it or are trying to distract themselves and not focus on it, so it’s nice if you just act casual and not all overly concerned or panicky over that person, that can just make them feel even worse
it always helps me feel better when someone just kinda chats casually to me, not acknowledging my anxiety and being patient if im slow to respond or barely respond at the moment
(i tend to say ‘yeah im okay/fine/whatever’ if someone asks me ‘whats wrong’ even if im clearly not okay)
This is good advice
… I have never heard of anxiety attacks before, I think I have experienced them… this is really helpful.
Do you know if/have a list of homeless/women's shelters allow pets? I hear a lot about revenge or intimidation killing of companion animals to discourage women from leaving abuse, or "get them back" for leaving. For a lot of women with animals, leaving an abusive relationship means risking your pet getting killed by your partner, or risking getting them put down in an animal shelter, or otherwise never seeing them again and that is enough to keep many women from leaving.
Very true; pets aren’t often taken into consideration when it comes to shelters and safe houses, but sometimes offering facilities for pets can mean the difference between someone getting out of an unsafe relationship or staying for fear that their furry loved ones will be hurt in their absence.
Here is a list of shelters equipped to accept survivors of domestic violence and their pets
Here is a Safe Havens for Animals directory
Here is a link to the Red Rover Project, which offers financial assistance to survivors of domestic violence and their pets.
The PAWS Startup Guide gives some interesting statistics regarding the role pets play in domestic violence situations as well as some guidelines to help start or advocate for a PAWS program in your area.